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These human beings who became
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to Mr. Dahmer's fantasies.

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In this series,

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we look at varying cases
of psychopathy.

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From individuals who are

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willing to kill other people to
sadistically kidnap them.

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But there's a much more
dangerous subset,

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one that you can never
see coming,

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and that's
the sexual psychopath.

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The thing
inside of me, it's like...

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the appetite,
it's like a wolf that's...

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feeling...
the hunger.

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In this series, we look at many
psychopathic individuals,

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people who have not hesitated
to harm and murder other people.

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{\an8}And we look at them
with a critical eye.

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{\an8}But when we think about these
cases, there's one population

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{\an8}of psychopath that continues
to show up time and time again.

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These are individuals
that are motivated

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by their
own sexual gratification,

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their own urges,
their own fantasies,

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and their own depraved beliefs
that creating harm,

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force, and fear in others
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And we call
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When we think of

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the sexual psychopath,
a couple names come to mind.

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We have Ted Bundy,
we have Jeffrey Dahmer,

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We have Richard Ramirez.

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{\an8}All of these individuals
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{\an8}in which they were crossing
the sexual boundary

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{\an8}to include murder.

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Everything is really just
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that it takes.

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Now, there's a particular way
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Their own unique offense cycle
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the style with which they are
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in that sexual boundary
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and the types of victims
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In this hour, we're going
to look at different approaches

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that the sexual psychopath uses

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to engage in
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how they choose
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and more importantly,
why they choose their victims.

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and their methodology,
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we start to see
some themes emerge.

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One of those themes is
the opportunist,

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that sexual psychopath
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the low-hanging fruit.

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They don't wanna
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to seek out their victim,

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and they don't
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to disable their victim.

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Oftentimes, the opportunistic
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young or they're old.
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like prostitution
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They're homeless.

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There's just an element
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to miss them.

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Or no one is really going to be
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The functionality
of the opportunist's
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is more about the ease
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in their compulsive behavior.

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the first name that comes
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These human beings

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who became sacrificial lambs
to Mr. Dahmer's fantasies.

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Dahmer began having
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and first acted on them in 1978

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when he killed
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and had sex
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his obsession
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like religion, masturbation,
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Once, he even went
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department store,
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But Boyle says in 1987,
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control his fantasies.

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Dahmer just didn't kill
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Jeffrey Dahmer
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of the rape, murder,
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of 17 different victims.

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His victims have often been
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marginalized communities,
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but the one thing
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is that they were easy targets,

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making them the perfect victims

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for the opportunists,
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is more about the ease of access
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harder, more difficult
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of Ryan Riggs.

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This is where the Brown County
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found the body
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Blankinship died from a crushed
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to her neck, face and torso.

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by a lawnmower blade
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Brown County
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21-year-old Ryan Riggs
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released a computerized sketch
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Blankinship and Riggs
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Riggs then went
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and confessed to killing
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Chantay Blankinship,
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Riggs says it all.

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An opportunistic
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is somebody who's gonna go
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because they can.

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It's an easy victim to access,
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to lure away, and it's somebody
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a lot of brain cells and energy
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Chantay was an easy victim
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she trusted him,
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and small, and she was also
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with sexual psychopaths.

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They tend to pick victims
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The opportunistic offender
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{\an8}The actions have very little
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She is the easy target
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into Ryan Riggs' fantasy.

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when we think about it
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anything to him at all.

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Her life and death
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in any way,
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act out a fantasy
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{\an8}of a sexual psychopath
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{\an8}He tried a variety of
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what was gonna create

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the most force or fear
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that giving in to the sexual
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that poor impulse control,
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that Ryan Riggs said, "I'm gonna
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he didn't have a plan
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are far more elaborate.
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in these individuals.
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The thrill of the chase
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of their sexual arousal.

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if that part doesn't happen.

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The predatory component,
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becomes most important to them.

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{\an8}between 1972 and 1983,

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{\an8}Robert Hansen was able
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{\an8}at least 17 women and children
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{\an8}and that his style was that
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{\an8}the psychopath who hunts.

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{\an8}what we see is that
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{\an8}the sexual boundary
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{\an8}It's not just the assault
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Yes, that was gratifying.

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into the wild so that he could
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like they were animals.

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the ultimate predator,
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And women, children,
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Anyone on the fringes of society
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Because it's not just simply
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as a method with which
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in the sadistic nature

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of whatever violent fantasies
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He simply
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as opposed to what
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them as human beings.

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These are prey for him to engage
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These aren't real people.

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They're just animals
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His interactions with
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are about
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but it's the hunt that makes
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It's the hunt that really
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its peak, as opposed to simply
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There is an addictive aspect
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He doesn't have to do it.
He wants to do it.

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He wants to have sex
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He wants to violate them.

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He wants to hunt them down
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fully acknowledges that this is

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every single day,
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{\an8}If he wasn't busy
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{\an8}he was out on this street

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{\an8}hunting these women,
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looking for his next victim.

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He was methodical,
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This is someone who maintained
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and impulse control
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and his fantasies.

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is getting most of their arousal
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{\an8}We see certain sadistic
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{\an8}there as ancillary aspects.

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They don't necessarily need
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Evolving from the hunter
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just about hunting
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It's about torturing them,
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It is making sure
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when the sexual psychopath
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Richard Ramirez,
a drifter from El Paso, Texas,

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and a self-described
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began his reign of terror
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when he murdered
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in her apartment
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By the time of his arrest
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Ramirez had gone
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that deputy district attorney
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had probably rewritten the book
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Richard Ramirez is
also known as the Night Stalker,

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{\an8}terrorized the community
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{\an8}hunting them down.

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{\an8}The experience for him was
all about getting a victim

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{\an8}that then he could torture
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That's where he found
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in doing ritualistic torture
and rape on his victims.

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The nature of
his criminal activity had

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the entire Los Angeles area
in a state of fear and panic.

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People didn't know
if it was OK

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to leave their windows open,

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and the Night Stalker
wanted it that way.

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This is a good example
of where the sadist gains power

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over their victims

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before sometimes
they even catch them.

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And for the truly
sadistic offender,

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they draw out that pain.
They draw out that fear.

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They don't worry about the harm
it causes that individual.

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But the more pain,
the more fear, the more torture,

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that they expose
their victim to,

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the more arousing
it is for them.

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That is their primary goal,

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to ensure that their sexual
arousal is met.

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And we see this in the case
of Jeremiah Connelly.

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So with the sadist
sexual psychopath,

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remember the salient element
is enjoying the suffering

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of other people or the emotional
turmoil of other people.

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And one way that they can
relive that is by telling

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the story again to the police
or by instilling

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in their interviewers
shock, horror, or dismay.

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And he's not telling the story
all at once.

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He throws little bits
and pieces out there,

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and I think it's for to control
their emotions.

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This is what the sadist
will do.

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They wanna control
and enjoy the distress

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in another human being.

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While Connelly gives
some gestures of caring

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about the victim and shows
some superficial attempts

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at remorse, what becomes
very clear as we learn

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about the details of his crime
is that he really didn't care

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about the victim.
She was an object to him.

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And ultimately, it was
about getting his own way.

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It was about maintaining
the status quo

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based on a fantasy that he had
built in his head,

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that this relationship
was something he wanted,

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he deserved, he was entitled
to it, and he was gonna get it.

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I think there are multiple
things that are happening

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when it comes to his animation.

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It's something
that he typically is.

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I think in his everyday life,
he is this elevated.

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But he's also excited

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because he engaged
in this behavior,

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didn't recognize how much
he wanted to engage

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in this behavior.

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And now he's describing it
to law enforcement officers.

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So, now he's getting the double
whammy of reliving it,

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but also psychologically
torturing them,

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as he describes it
play by play.

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The sadist will
set up an idea

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in the mind of the victim,

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like where things
are gonna go.

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And it is for the purpose, then,

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of causing them more distress
or torturing them.

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So in this phase,
he's promising her,

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"Yeah, you'll go
home eventually."

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It's raising hope.

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But he's gonna hold out
the promise so that he can

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enhance her suffering and then
eventually announce to her

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what is going to happen to her
so that he can actually enjoy

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her realization that,
you know,

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it's not gonna turn out well.

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{\an8}The decision to smother
a victim by covering her face

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{\an8}with duct tape serves no other
purpose than to distance

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{\an8}himself from her humanity
because he doesn't have to look

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at her face,

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and to prolong her death
and dying process.

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Instead of it being
a quick kill,

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the sexual psychopath
and the sadistic psychopath

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wants a slow death,

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wants that slow torture
and torment.

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And that's exactly what Connelly
got by making that decision.

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This whole thing with Connelly
started because Wilcoxen had

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{\an8}rejected all of his overtures
to move in with him.

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{\an8}What Wilcoxen didn't know was
that there was an underlying

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{\an8}desire by Connelly
to hurt people.

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There is another approach
in which that initial rejection

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compels the person to engage
in sexually violent acts.

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But the primary driving force
is that of revenge.

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Sexual psychopaths
who are triggered

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by feelings of rejection,
feelings of abandonment,

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feelings that
they're losing control

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over a relationship
or being left,

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are individuals that are what
we think of as "the rejected."

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Serial killer
Ted Bundy is talking,

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confessing to murder
after murder,

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giving investigators
grisly details

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of a decade-long
cross-country crime spree.

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Bundy tells of a murder
and describes himself

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in the third person.

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Bundy has been
convicted of three murders,

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confessed to a dozen more,
and is still a suspect

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in another two dozen.

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The victims were all
young, pretty,

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and with long, dark hair.

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Ted Bundy
was responsible for raping

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and killing over 30 women,

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and there were many crimes
that went unsolved

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that likely were attributed
to him as well.

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And what we know
about Ted Bundy

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is he's a perfect example

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of a sexual psychopath
who was rejected.

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For Ted Bundy, we see
his rejected approach

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starts with his college
girlfriend, Diane Edwards,

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who broke up with him.

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It's not surprising, then,
that his victimology

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closely matched
that of Diane Edwards.

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He was specifically looking
to take revenge out on her,

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as often as he can,

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matching their ages,

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matching their hairstyles,
everything perfect

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so that he can violate her
over and over and over again.

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The rejected sexual psychopath
is oftentimes not driven

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by a direct need
for sexual gratification

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that has to do
with physical arousal.

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It has much more to do
with preserving their ego,

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preserving their sense
of power and control,

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preserving their sense
that they're OK.

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In other words,
helping to maintain

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that their narcissistic view
of themselves is correct.

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When we think about
the rejected sexual psychopath,

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we also think about the case
of James Barnes.

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She left enough
of an impression on him

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that he became focused
on her and had no choice

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but to annihilate her.

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And that deep level
of rejection and anger

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and animosity that James Barnes
exhibited in his crime

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and how he killed
Patricia Miller is consistent

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with the sexual psychopath
who feels rejected.

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Their drive isn't necessarily
sexual arousal.

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The sexual arousal may have
been a secondary gain.

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But realistically, it likely
was more about increasing

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the fear that she felt,
increasing the pain she felt,

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increasing the power
and control over her.

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And how a rejected sexual
psychopath takes back control,

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resumes homeostasis on their ego
and their narcissism

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and grandiosity, is to pretend
that everything is fine.

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Barnes can't even
just admit and say,

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"I was mad at her
'cause I made a pass.

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She didn't accept it.
I got rejected."

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That's a blow
to the ego, right?

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To admit I was turned down.

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And these are the kinds
of psychopaths who can't take

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that kind of rejection.

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It cuts very deep,
and they're offended,

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and then they're enraged by it,
which is then why

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someone has to suffer.

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The fact that Barnes
is willing to discuss

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the painful details
and the graphic details

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of the crime itself that led
to Patricia Miller's death,

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but he won't discuss
what led up to it,

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and he won't discuss
what happened afterward,

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or the fact
that she humiliated him,

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that she brought him some pain.

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Barnes can't tolerate
that level of shame.

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He can't tolerate that level
of humiliation and rejection.

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And when we see the rejected
sexual psychopath,

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this is precisely
what we're talking about.

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Their ego can't handle reality,
and their ego can't handle

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how fragile it really is.

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Sex is a primary motivator
for nearly everyone's behaviors.

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The only reason why people
do anything is probably

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because it's sex related.

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I think, though, what separates
the sexual psychopath

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from the regular human being,

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from the prototypical
psychopath,

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is the compulsion.

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Sex is always on their mind.

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The deviant ways in which
they can engage

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in their sexual behaviors

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are constantly fantasized
and masturbated to.

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The rest of us, even
the prototypical psychopath,

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can have motivators
outside of sex.

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We can do things simply
because it's a fun thing to do.

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For the sexual psychopath,
however, everything is deviant.

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Everything is about gaining
power and control,

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of exacting revenge,

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of bringing attention
to whatever slight has happened

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to them, to their fragile
narcissistic ego.

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So for them, it's not just
that sex is a primary motivator

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it's that the violation needs

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to be associated with that.

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{\an8}And that violation
is whatever the fantasy is.

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{\an8}The sexual psychopath
has no boundary or limits

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{\an8}to what they will do
and what steps they will take

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{\an8}to harm another person
to meet their own sexual needs,

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{\an8}to achieve and maintain
their own sexual gratification.

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{\an8}And it is because of that lack
of a boundary

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{\an8}that we should absolutely
regard these individuals

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{\an8}in this category of psychopaths
as some of the highest risk

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{\an8}and most feared in society.